Dr. Ann Truong breaks down what surveys of 52,000 men and measurements of 15,000 men actually show about penis size. Most women prioritize kindness, intelligence, and foreplay over size. She explains the difference between bone-press and non bone-press measurement methods and average dimensions.
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12% (2017 survey of ~52,000 heterosexual men).
22% (2017 survey of ~52,000 heterosexual men).
66% (2017 survey of ~52,000 heterosexual men).
About 15,000 men (multi-national).
4.75 inches (4 and 3/4 inches) — non bone-press measurement.
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Ever wonder whether your penis is average, small or large? Stay tuned to find out. The question I get, number one most of the time is what is the average size of the penis? And what do men think about their penis size? Well, according to a study in 2017 that asked 52,000 men heterosexual what they think of their size, 12% of them say that they think their penis is small.
Size matters not. Look at me. Just mean by my size, do you?
And 22% say that they think their penis is large.
Absolutely.
And 66% says it is average, not great or terrible. However, the actual numbers actually varies and you'll be very surprised. Now, what is the actual number? So there was a study that looked at 15,000 men all over the world, different nationality, different races. And before I get into that, what I want to go back on is how do you measure an erect penis?
Like what? What?
So there's kind of two ways to measure. One is what they call bone press, where you can take a ruler and you press against the pubic bone and press into the fat. Or you can just measure with a tape which is from the base of the penis all the way to the tip. That way is called non bone press. And the bone press is when you take a rule and you press against the pubic bone and. And there's usually fat right here. So I'm going to give you numbers that are non bone press and numbers that are bone press. So the non bone press of an erect penis is 4 inch and 3 quarter. So 4 and 3 quarter inch. With bone press, when you press through, the fat is 5.5 inch. And what is the girth? How do you measure the girth?
I don't know, man.
You measure the girth at the base of the penis right here, erect. And you just normally just go around. So this is a circumference, this is not the diameter. So you measure around. You can just use a tape or a tailor's tape to go around. And an erect penis girth is 4.6 inch. That is the average. Now, plastic depends upon the weather, the condition, so forth. So the. I think what we need to focus on is what the erect penis is. And these numbers are in men that does not have ED and ranging from men from 25 to 60. And very important to note, according to women, size does not matter as much because according to this study that I find fascinating, what really matters to women that they find that's important is not so much the penis girth or size, what they rate as the number one that matters to them is kindness. Kindness in a man is more important than his penis size. Followed by intelligence.
I'm smart too.
Followed by foreplay skill.
This is nasty.
Followed by height that they want the man to be taller than them, like six, four, don't mind me. And travel by if he has experience, travel abroad and then finance.
I'm really rich.
Good clothes and then political attitude. And next is enjoys cooking. A dream come true. And it's more important than the penis side. So women put kindness and intelligent and foreplay skill even before size. So what that means, guys, is that if you focus on these factors, size doesn't matter to women at all. Nice. So that's something to note. Now why is it that there is this misconception that women prefer big is actually a misconception. Women doesn't really have a preferential size. And recent studies have looked at. Okay, what is the size of a vibrator that women use? Interestingly, the vibrator size is chosen the most. It actually falls in what I had mentioned before. For an erect penis, that's about 4.5 and 5 inches, which is around what is the actual measurement. So, so women, when they buy dildo, they're not necessarily buying 8 inch or 9 inch dildo, they're actually buying what the average size is. And the girls, they're buying it around 4.5 as well too. So that's a very interesting fact as well. So it is actually a misconception that in generality that all women like it bigger, but they would prefer more kindness, intelligence, foreplay and also height as well. So I went over the dodo size and in conclusion guys, that how you get aroused and how you do foreplay also affect how much you erect as well. So the more aroused you are, the more desire, the more foreplay, the more you spend concentrating on communication and intimacy, you become more aroused and you may even get more erect and more firm as well. So that's something to consider. It's not just get ready, five minutes later you're done. In fact, if you rush through things and not spend as much foreplay, you may not get your full erection as well. Now something to note. This is in non ED men. I do know after treating many men with ED that they tend to finish earlier because they're concerned that their erection may go away. So therefore they may orgasm or ejaculate sooner than they would like. So having said that, again, I want to reiterate that the non bone Press size is 4.75 inch or 4 and 3 quarter inch and the bone press which is pressing down through the fat to the pubic bone for an erect penis is 5.5 inch. And then the girth, which is the circumference not diameter is 4.6 inch. So having said that, a lot of men think that their average 66%, which is good. But just know that women prefer kindness, intelligence, more time with foreplay and more time in communication and more time in intimacy. And if you focus on that, then you probably will get more aroused and you will probably become more erect. And if the woman is turned on, you get turned on as well too. I do know that if a man that has ed, if a woman become aroused and want to engage in more sexual activity, that is also a treatment for the man with ED as well too. And oftentimes the brain is a larger sexual organ. And if you spend time with arousal and desire and using your senses such as your visual, what you smell, what you taste, what you hear, what you touch, that all compounds in giving sensory input to your brain which then boosts up the arousal, the desire, which then increases the the hormone and the nerve activity which then increases blood flow to the penis. So having said that, I hope you find this helpful. I would appreciate it if you like and subscribe and comment on my channel and just know that there are natural solution to ED or even solution to optimize your performance function. And that I want you to join me in the sexual revolution to help you empower sexual longevity. So that way you can enjoy sexual wellness for your whole entire life. That's why I created the Modern Man Club. It's a safe, discreet place where we discuss sexual wellness and strategies for ed.
That works.
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