39: Reality Bending

All right, we're in for a fun ride today on the Drew and you show. We're talking about reality bending. Being the alchemist, being the magician, being the sorceress of your own life experience, and how to build up momentum, motivation to actually get what you want. So, for me, my relationship around bending my own reality started when I was, like, 15 years old. I remember the driver's permit that I actually had, and I was like, you know what? I'm gonna will this green light to change. And then it was all of a sudden, I was changing the lights in my mind, and therefore, it was happening in my experience 99% of the time. And I'm like, there's something to this. So the more I started to shift my perspective, my beliefs started to change about what's possible, my thoughts started to shift, therefore, my actions started to change. And I think it all comes down to when you change the way you look at things, the way you look at things change, which our buddy Wayne Dyer said RIP way back in the.

So I think it's understanding where your focus needs to be and then changing your thoughts to change your world, because you can't change anything in anybody else. The only thing you can control is your thoughts. Which is why I've dedicated whole entire podcast to the thought realm. Thinking is the real work. We're not going to a job. We're not checking in, we're not doing this, we're not doing that. We're actually. The thought realm is where all the juice is for our life. So every life situation is an experience in itself. It's up to you in how you respond, how you reframe. I call them choice points, which you've heard me say in the past. And what you want to experience depends on your beliefs, which are attached to your perceptions. So what you believe you receive, what you believe you perceive, and what you perceive you receive. Right. Does that make sense? Are you tracking me? So how can we align ourselves towards more positive energies to create our reality, to be safe, to be comfortable, to be protected. And no matter what situation happens, no matter what the world throws at us, it's important understanding that we can do anything, we can create it. And it doesn't have to be a tough job. It doesn't have to be a lot of work. This is easy. This is effortless. I remember when I was 21 years old, I was sitting in an Esther Hicks workshop, and I'm like, esther, how can I get Abraham right? She goes by because she's a channel. Anyway, I'm Sitting there. I was probably one of five guys in this whole entire room. There's like 500 women. But I had to ask this question. I'm like, my parents aren't, you know, doing anything healthy. My dad smokes. How can I get him on the same vibrational plane that I'm on? And how can, you know, get my employees at the time on the same vibrational plane that I'm on? How can I do this? And she just said, the only thing I need to be concerned of is my own canoe and turning my canoe around downstream. Because anything going upstream is just resistance. And resistance essentially is futile, especially when it comes to creating our own reality. So there's a lot of mandates. There's a lot of things happening in the world today. People are trying to steal our power. They're trying to tell us we should be doing certain things. It's up to us to control the thought realm and then control the feelings behind the thought realm. Because the feeling creates the resonance, right? And the reflection. The reflection shows up when we're feeling a certain way. Because vibrational is a location. There's no location in time and space without a certain frequency or vibration which would allow us to travel. So when we're angry, when we're revengeful, when we start the day in a negative way, guess what shows up more and more negative, right? Maybe there's a lot of mental irritation. When you're sitting in traffic, you're upset, you're flipping people off, you start blaming the system, you start blaming the roads, you. You start blaming the lights, whatever it is, you are playing the blame game. So then more and more starts to show up negatively for you to react to, because there was a reaction inside of you that is actually pulling it closer to you. When we react versus respond, we're calling in more of what we don't want. Maybe you've heard that before. So on the other hand, when you go into the world, generous, full of life, full of joy, full of glee, right? And you're presenting the day as if this is a movie that you're in, or as if this is the great apparition, as Jesus said in the Gospel of Thomas, which means this is an illusion that we live in. When we animate our thoughts with positivity and we give positive signals to other people around us, when we give reverence to the trees and Mother Nature and the surroundings, when we walk on the ground with bare, bare feet, and it's no longer a walk, it's a reflection, it's an appreciation It's a prayer with every step. Right? Thank you. Thank you, thank you. When we accept life versus trying to change it, more and more of our reality will start to show up and exactly what we wish for. I'm living proof of that. Over and over, my life has completely changed because of this connection to Source Creator that operates through me. I don't take anything too serious. And because I don't take it serious, more and more starts to show up in the reality that I'm creating here in the now. And maybe you feel like that in your own life. So let me give you some practical ways to shift and change what we're doing here. Maybe some resources that can help you in an unconscious way, start to bend and shift your reality right here, right now. So if you've been tracking me for any period of time, you know that we have the power and we have the willpower, more importantly, to accomplish any goal that we can dream up. But there's a certain way to managing your willpower. There's a lot of systems, there's a lot of things in the planet today that will actually start to rob your willpower from you, right? The creation process is simple. When we're determined to do something, we give it more energy, we give it more frequency. So if we're light beings, we're casting more light on whatever it is that we're trying to create. So willpower, is that real world energy. It's the real world gasoline. It's the real world luminous aspect of ourselves that we turn on other things to create. And essentially every time we feel like things are going out of hand, we need to realize that we have the inner power to change it in seconds, right? So the timeline, there's like a lagging timeline. If we sit and we ruminate and we're upset about something, we have to recognize that we have the willpower to change it in a second. And we do that through our thoughts. And when we change our thoughts around something, right, the perception starts to shift when we realize how important it is. We have 50 to 80,000 thoughts a day. And if our thoughts are alive, right every. I look at every thought as a living being. It's a living entity, and it's going forth to accomplish something. It's going forth to remember something. It's going forth to impart love, it's going forth to impart light on other human beings. Every thought has limitless energy, and it's a seed, it's a spark, it's not just a thought. So it becomes more important when we realize that every single thought we have is leaving our energetic field and going somewhere, where is it going, right? What is it contributing to? Is it contributing to the zombified sleeping state that most of the world's in? Or is my thinking contributing to the elevated ascended state singing a song, a victory that's already here, already in the now moment? So when we can really start to tap into our thinking and witness it, we can start to change our vibration based around gives us really a better mental attitude. Because when we're in this positive state and look, it's easy to go down the path of things aren't working out for me, I'm in my ego. Things could be a lot better than they are. It just doesn't work out. Like, I don't make enough money. Like, these thoughts are very real to a lot of people. And when you harbor negative thoughts, you're pulling more and more into your life that that's way that's in that. So anybody I'm working with, coaching students, employees, the first thing I analyze are the thoughts that they're actually having. You could see them. Thoughts animate the person. They're in the field. They're in the magnetic energy that the person's putting out there. And if you're still enough in your own thinking, you can start to get access to other people's thoughts, which is what a lot of the masters have done throughout all time. And listen, the veil between the thought realm and the 3D realm that we're actually in, right? The fourth density, the mental plane is getting thinner and thinner. And I know you feel it. Telepathy is real. Like you're literally thinking about somebody, and all of a sudden they call you that day. Like, this is happening to everyone right now. Especially if you're listening to this podcast. It could be the weirdest, bizarrest connection. Maybe you were in college with somebody three years ago, you have a thought about them, and now all of a sudden, they're reaching out to you, right? So it's really important to get a grip on our thinking. And the best way to get a grip on your thinking is literally to remind yourself using the tools that you already have at hand. Number one, your cell phone set app reminders. There's an app called reminder that you can say, hey, remind Drew that his heart is full, that he lacks nothing, and that he's already on track for his soul's purpose and his desire, right? And then all of a sudden, this alert pops up in my phone. Do I need to read the Alert every time, or does my unconscious scan every single thing in the environment and pick it up and then store it in my energy field? Yes. I don't need to read it every time. It helps. Helps to read it. Especially reading it out loud. Especially reading it out loud and visualizing it as if it's already done. Right? Like an aff formation. Those are super powerful as well. But when we do this over and over, we're imprinting it on our unconscious. Which is why I'm a big fan of sticky notes. You've seen my morning ritual videos, maybe on YouTube. You've listened to some of my other podcasts. I have sticky notes all over my house, especially when I'm up against a wall. There's walls that present themselves to us in our lives. Most people fall off the wagon of ambition when they hit a wall, right? You're not going to hit a wall. You're going to go around it. Especially listening to this podcast. And if you're one of my coaching students listening to this, right now, we know how to break through these walls. It's simple. But you need somebody to guide you. And in the beginning, right? And my goal always for a human being is to not need to keep coming back. Not coming back to this podcast, not coming to my books, not doing the coaching. Like you will get it. You are your own guru. You just haven't realized it yet. There's this re remembering happening right here, right now. So we've talked about thoughts. Next up would be emotions, because thoughts, I believe, are in the fourth plane, the mental plane. Right? Emotions are in the body. These are chemicals that we feel in our heart. These are chemicals that we feel in our mind. Neurochemicals. They create the feeling, resonance. The resonance creates the vibration. Sometimes we have stuck trauma. Maybe it's fear, anger, jealousy. And if we concentrate on the pain, then we're going to get more pain. Right? So, long story short, and I'm going to talk more about this in a future episode, but my former girlfriend, who's an amazing soul, by the way, one of the greatest people I've ever met on this planet, Rebecca, we broke up two months ago. And she had this beautiful little dog, Jonah, who I love. I love Jonah. He's like one of my. He's like my son, right? I had so much love for this dog. He would come up to me all the time. He'd jump on my leg. Like he would beg for food incessantly. He would turn his head. Calculated wolf. Hundreds of millions of years of evolution was packaged up in this little 10, 10 inch canine, like off the floor. Like, this is the cutest little lion. I gave him a lion cut during quarantine. Like, this dog was a head turner. Such a little prince, I called him. He was so beautiful. And he still is. He's still alive. But after two months of watching him, because she's moving and she's doing all this stuff, she's building her business, she's on the go, go, go, go. I, I had to give Jonah back and it broke my freaking heart. I cried. No joke, I cried probably 14, 15 times. I had built such a relationship with this dog. I literally felt like he was my child. I didn't want to give him back, but I knew she needed him more. She's working through her stuff. And I ruminated in the emotion quite a bit. I allowed myself to feel it, feel it, to heal it, right? But then I got to a point where it's like, okay, you're just, you're re remembering the past over and over and over again. You're eliciting sadness like, let's move out of this. And my Don, who I've been working with, who I've mentioned before, for the past 13 years, he's a shaman. And a shaman is just. There's a whole nother. I could do a whole week show on my interaction with him and what's happened in my life because of this. A super profound supernatural experiences. But nonetheless, he told me once, he's like, you can jump in the pool, but don't get wet. And he uses these analogies like this, right? And what he means by that is you can jump in the pool of emotion and you can swim around in this pool and you can get absolutely soaked, but the goal is jump in it, feel it, and then get out. You don't have to, you don't have to be stuck in the the muck, right? You can get out of the mess. You can get out of the mess with a mission or something that's going to propel you forward from that. So, long story short, with Jonah, I know I went on a tangent with this. I was able to spend some quality time with this little guy for like a day before he left. And, and I had a conversation with him. I'm talking to him, I'm telling him how much I love him. One of my friends, like, communicated with him and was like, hey, Jonah loves you. He understands that he has to go. Which was super helpful. And yeah, it was life changing nonetheless, that conversation alone.

But you don't have to get stuck in your emotions because your emotions are constantly working for you. Like the thought. The thought is a living, living being, right? And when our emotions are just so fired up, it can kill the motivation. I could sit on a couch for an entire week watching Netflix if my. I'm at an emotional lull. But how do I move the emotion forward? And for me, I'm a big body guy. I love working out because I believe moving the body is moving the stuck energy. Waking up, eating great food, drinking organifi every day. This is fueling your gut, those positive emotions. 90% of serotonin goes to your gut or goes to your head from your gut. We can change our gut with our emotions. We can heal with our emotions. We can call on the rain clouds with emotions. There's so many other supernatural senses that we have that are directly connected to the emotion of the heart. So allow yourself to feel it, but don't get stuck in it. Use your emotions to create worlds that are inside of you. Neville Goddard talks about the room of wishful thinking. He said, feeling is the secret. So go there in your mind. Feel it, feel it, feel it. Super powerful stuff, my friend. It'll definitely pave the path towards a future manifested that you could always believe in. And that brings me into beliefs, right? Beliefs are actually the source of your thoughts. So how do we shift your beliefs? Right? Like if your belief is because I was, you know, tortured as a kid, I was abused. I had all these things happening from my biological parents. So for a long time I believed I wasn't lovable. For a long time I believed that money was scarce. Right? For a long time I believe that the world would never accept me because I was abandoned. The tribe cut me off from my parents, so I would just materialize situations and experiences like that. So until I started to change my beliefs, I did that by sticky notes. I did that by recording my voice at night and listening to it before I go to bed, telling myself who I was, what I wanted to create, what beliefs I wanted to install in the supercomputer of our unconscious mind. Psycho Cybernetics is a great book. I know I brought that up before, but Maxwell Maltz is the author. I've read this book a few times. It'll absolutely change your life if you haven't read it yet. And it's all about changing your identity. It's changing your image of what you see in your identity. So why is it that some people can have 20 jobs and after 20 different projects that they've worked on they still haven't found success. Why is it that some people are in relationship after relationship and it always ends in a similar way? It's a belief, right? These are belief systems that have been installed in the supercomputer of the mind. And they're easy to change and they don't take a long time to change. So any coach, any psychologist, anybody that's telling you this is going to take a couple years to reshape these beliefs, no, don't listen to it. Get it out of here. You don't need to hear that. So there's a saying that says you don't see the things as they are. You see them as you are. And this is so true. So who are you in any moment? Who are. You can change in any single moment. Your vibration can change, what you're calling in can change in any moment. But those beliefs, it all comes down to your beliefs, right? You lose your willpower and then all of a sudden you believe something different. We can change every single one of these things. When we start to shift our identity, there's a pyramid called Dolt's Pyramid. And it's the pyramid of, it's an NLP pyramid and it's the logical levels is what it's called. So we go through the logical levels and at the very top of the pyramids, your identity. So how do you change your identity? We start to shift our beliefs, which have an unconscious hold on us. We start to change our capabilities, we start to change our choices that we have, the decisions that we make. Maybe we get to have an ego death ceremony. I did this once, actually, where I wrote down everything that I was willing to give up. And then I went out and this was all on biodegradable paper, by the way. And I buried it as if I was having a funeral for the old Drew. And I wrote it all up and I buried it in the ground to let it go 100%. And that's what I did. So maybe that's something for you too. Maybe there's been choices in the past. Maybe there's been decisions in the past that you've made that are no longer serving you or working for you. Bury those. Get rid of them. What are you focused on? Everything in your past is behind you. Like into a rear view mirror, right? Most people are so stuck looking in the rearview mirror, it's just a tiny, small little mirror in your car that they're forgetting that what's in front of them is the whole entire world. The whole entire window of your Life, your dreams, your goals, the choices to manifest absolutely anything is right there at your beckoning call, which brings me into the next one, which is the power of your words. The power of your words are so powerful. And most people, they don't pay attention to their thoughts, so how are they going to pay attention to their words, right? Words can humiliate. They can hurt you. They can tear you down, they can beat you up, they can bully different people. They can. They can destroy worlds. An idea, a vision that somebody had for themselves, somebody that they look up to and care about comes in and says, wow, some snarky comment. All of a sudden, they just destroyed something that was being created for years. Now they no longer believe it. Now they're walking around sulking, crying because one person decided to destroy the world with some words. Words are like the greatest weapon you could ever use. Words tell stories, right? Great storytellers use spells to cast words, and great magicians use words to break spells that stories have been told. And you're a magician, if that makes sense. So use your magic wisely. Sprinkle it on people with love. Sprinkle it on people with positivity. Give them. All of you, don't hold back. Let your heart be opened up. Don't be stuck in your mind. Mind. Words are useless when it comes up against the heart. The heart has a much stronger electromagnetic field. It has more empathy. It has more connection, it has more love. The mind is just. The mind can just pull us down is really what I'm trying to say with this. So use your words wisely. It's so easy to do, and you can create your own reality when you start to believe what you're saying. And above all else, my friend and I know I'm. This podcast is at our time limit for today, but I could talk more about this. This is something I am super pumped up about. In my own life, I built up motivation, momentum by changing what I believed about myself, by indoctrinating my unconscious with more positive messages, which actually changed the way I talked to every single person that entered it. You become more magnetic. You become more connected when you start to see the world like this. So if you love this show, head on over to the Drew and you podcast on itunes. Leave a review for me if you would, and I just greatly appreciate it. Hit me up on Instagram. Let me know what you guys want to hear next. Check me out on YouTube, fitlifetv and go to Organifi. 20% off. Use Coupon code Drew. I'm gonna post all this in the show notes. I'll post the books that I actually referenced today as well. These are some of the greatest books I've used. And when it comes to reality bending, I know I talked a little bit in the very beginning about the Kybalion, but this will help you, too. These are old hermetic principles that you can apply to your life and super, super powerful. So there's also a test called the Wealth Building dynamics test, and that will tell you how you create your own reality and how to get success in your life based on who you are. And it's pretty interesting stuff. You probably already know it intuitively, but it's just nice to sometimes do these personality tests that can give a little bit more information. So, with that being said, much love, my friend. As always, remember, we're in this together. And I'll see you soon.

Sam.