Gaurav SaxenaSenior Service Delivery Lead, Accenture in the Philippines · Getting ready to be limitless

Are weekends Really good? #motivation #emotionalfreedomtechnique

19 Jul 2026 · 2 min

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A speaker introduces the "sovereign shift," a technique that reframes disagreements by adding "to me" to statements. Instead of arguing over objective facts, which triggers stress responses like a racing heart and throat tightness, you acknowledge your perspective as personal. Two examples show how this simple shift dissolves ego-driven conflicts.

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A simple conversation with a partner, a parent, or a colleague suddenly turns into a battleground. This is not important, they say. It is important, you reply. No, it is not. I am telling you it's not. Within 30 seconds, the temperature in The room rises. Your heart rate increases, your throat tightens, and your energy drops into a survival state. You have entered the classic ego trap, the battle Over whose reality is the correct one. But what if you could dissolve this entire cycle of friction with just two words: the sovereign shift to me. Let's rerun those exact scenarios, but this time we will apply a quantum linguistic filter. Scenario A, they say it doesn't matter. You say it matters to me. Scenario B, they say it is not important. You say it is important to me. Notice the immediate physical shift in how those sentences feel. When you say it matters, you are making an objective claim about the universe. You are claiming authority, which practically invites the other person to challenge you. But when you add to me, you instantly pull your energy back into your own sovereign field. You are no longer debating the objective state of the world. You are simply stating your personal subjective reality. Thank you for listening. I love you all.