In this conversational video, Gaurav Saxena and a fellow healer (Speaker B) address a common block among healers: the guilt of charging for their services. They argue that offering healing for free undermines its perceived value, using a table‑clock analogy to illustrate how a free item receives no accountability or expectation, leading clients to treat it as worthless. The speakers explain that when a client pays, the act of spending money activates the client’s subconscious, creating commitment, self‑worth, and a stronger likelihood of engagement and results. They identify the healer’s own guilt as the primary obstacle, suggesting that healers must first heal this internal block before confidently charging. Practical steps are offered: assess the chakra responsible for the guilt via a free 15‑minute call on breathtaptalk.com, join Mitesh Katri’s Platinum community for peer support, and present paid healing or coaching programs with clear payment methods (UPI, Paytm, Google Pay, PayPal). The overall message encourages healers to stop giving away their gifts for free, stand in their value, and recognize money as a container for commitment rather than greed.
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Hello, my friends.
I'm making this video for my fellow healers, not just the ones who are from our beautiful Platinum family, but even from for the ones who are not a part of the Platinum family. But you know, they are healers. Whether been there for a long time or new. Okay.
So people who don't know me, my name is Gaurav Saxena.
I'm a part of Mitesh. Master's, uh, Platinum Family. Have been learning with him, or rather from him, for over a year. And, uh, I've started healing and doing life coaching. So, you know, uh, one thing that I want to talk about, uh, it is something that's been keeping healers stuck for years.
And I was stuck in it too. It's the guilt about charging for healing, and you know what I mean.
And I was feeling the same like just even some time ago, uh, like I'll say a few weeks ago.
So that voice that says, how can I take money for something so sacred?
How can I charge when people are suffering, right? Sometimes we assess and we say, uh, maybe the financial status of person is not right, so I should not charge, right?
Or it's my first time, let me give it for free. We have all, all been there. So let me tell you a story that came to my mind yesterday, and it was Friday, so I thought, okay, I'll share it today.
By the way, it's 12:26 AM, so here in Manila, so I just thought, okay, but I'll still— I wanted to speak with all of you, so I thought I'll sleep after that.
So yeah, so here is what I realized. See, imagine you go to a market, okay, and there is a free, beautiful, small, cute table clock. You pick that table clock and somebody says, take it, it's free. You say, okay, you pick it up, you're happy, you bring it home and you put it on your shelf. And next morning you see it's not working. Now ask yourself, how many people go back to that shop and say, "Hey, this clock is broken." Shall I wait for the answer?
Okay.
Think of the answer. How many people? And in the meantime, I forgot I wanted to play some nice music while we are talking. So any guesses? How many people will go?
So I'll tell you, the answer is no one.
And the reason is because, you know, when we get something for free, and you would have noticed this, this happens when we are at home, we show it to somebody and then, you know, we say, hey, I got it for free. And then, uh, the person, you know, so nice, uh, you know, will it work? And then our answer is, you know, I got it for free.
Even if it works for a few days, it is great.
So you know what is happening there is, one, we are already telling our subconscious that it is for free. I have no expectations. From the value of it. So whether it works for a long time, it doesn't work, I am equally fine in both. So now when this is what we are feeding to our subconscious, and all of us know what we are telling our subconscious, our subconscious is looking for that. So when we are not even showing the value for something which is for free, so the subconscious will not find value in that. It's, it's As simple as that. There will not be value in that. So that's the same thing, my friends. We will not feel the value in something that we get for free. Your brain already decided it has no value, no expectations, and there is no accountability, right? There is no accountability from that shop owner. Similarly, now when you think of it for your client's perspective, When you're giving something for free to your clients, it's free, it was nice, it's good, they felt it. And what are they doing? They're looking for something else for free. Do they have any accountability from you? No, maybe not. Even if they'll have some questions, even if something different happens, right? When we heal, it shows the results, but then we know those patterns come back, right? It takes time. Sometimes it comes back within few hours, sometimes it comes back within few days. And that's why we propose a proper coaching program. But when those come back, people may not come back because that's the thing— when it's for free, there is no expectation, there is no accountability, nothing. But when you pay for something, when you hand over your money, your brain wakes up. Your brain says, I paid for this, this better work, I'm going to use this. Commitment changes everything. Similarly, when your client makes that payment, now the client— first of all, okay, let me tell you this. For your client, paying in itself is a healing because, you know, there are a lot of clients who feel, my, I'm not worth it, I don't have self-worth, right? You would have seen a lot such clients who feel There is no self-worth. I'm just living for others. I'm responsible for everybody's happiness except myself, right? But when you make them pay, when they make that payment, that's internally a signal that I am investing in myself. In that right moment, you make them feel the value, their own value. So when they have made an investment, they show up differently, they practice differently, they get results differently. The money isn't greedy, my friends. The money is the container that holds their commitment. So the hardest part for healers to hear is that when we are carrying that guilt about charging The guilt is the real block. Not that you don't know how to heal, not that you don't have skill, not that your customers are not willing to pay. Your clients are willing to pay, but it's your guilt that is a block. And because that guilt energy is what you are transmitting to your clients, they feel it, they sense it, and they think if the healer Doesn't believe this is worth paying for. Why should I? So the first healing you need to do is on yourself. Heal the guilt, because the moment you charge without an apology, without hesitation, the moment you say, "Sure, I'm happy." to set up a program for you, and this is how the program looks like. This is the investment amount that you need to do in yourself. And when the customer says okay, and then you just say, here's my UPI, here's my Paytm, here's my PayPal.
Yeah.
Whatever. Here's my Google Pay.
That's when the real transformation begins for you and them. So if you are a platinum member, you know, in this community of 4,000 people, we can always talk to each other and we can clear this guilt block. We can talk to Mitesh AI and we can clear this guilt block.
If you're not a part of Mitesh Katri's platinum group and you want to understand which chakra is creating this Guilt block in you.
Go to my website breathtaptalk.com. There's a link.
Assess your chakras.
Fifteen minutes. Free call. Not a free call. That doesn't mean that you'll get the free coaching from me. No, but I'll help you assess your chakra, and then if you know how to heal it, you heal it. If you want me to heal it, then. you'll pay for that because I know the value for my work, and you'll realize it when you'll pay it— when you pay for it. Okay.
All right, guys, so stop giving away your gifts for free.
Not because you're greedy, because free means worthless in the human nervous system. Charge.