You don't need the whole plan figured out before you act. Borrow confidence from people who've handled what you're facing, pause to breathe when crisis hits, call someone with experience, and look for one simple fix you can make right now.
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You said something like, you can— if you don't have the confidence into something, you can borrow it. And I'm like, what the hell you're talking about? How can you borrow the confidence from, from others? And what you're saying is exactly that. If you put yourself in a place where people have done what you're looking to do, their confidence, it's going to be yours. They will calm down your nervous system, per se. Because how many women we have had conversations with, they were like freaking out with whatever was happening, right? Lawsuit or something that flood that happened in their brand new, uh, the deal's about to get locked up.
You're supposed to lose the deal at the end, 11th hour, right?
11th hour, literally at 11th hour, you're about to lose the deal a couple of hours, right? And they're freaking out. So when, when you are able to say, hey, take a breath, let me connect with somebody. Wait a minute, did you try this? Hey, did you just shut off the water valve? Or, you know, anything that will kind of like, I didn't think of that, because you are just relying on, on yourself.