Jared Goetz describes how he resisted commitment until he shifted from asking what he could get from a relationship to asking how he could serve the people he loves. That change, he says, transforms love into a catalyst for personal growth.
And anytime something wrong would happen, or wrong in my book, she would do something that I'd be like, "Well, that's just too good." And it was kind of like, I'd never planned on having a long-term relationship, but— and my mind was looking for every reason why to not be in a relationship. And I ended up marrying her and realizing recently that it's not about me. It's about when you could change your life from, "How do I serve myself?" to "How can I serve the people I love in my life way better?"
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