Affirmations fail because your subconscious watches your nervous system, not your words. If your body stays in survival mode, it rejects "I am enough" as a lie. Reprogram yourself by regulating your nervous system first, then the affirmations land.
Reprogramming your mind isn't about repeating affirmations in the mirror. It's about getting your body to believe what your mouth is saying. Your subconscious doesn't listen to words. It listens to patterns, safety patterns, emotional patterns, identity patterns. That's why affirmations oftentimes don't work because you're dysregulated. You can say I am enough all day, but if your nervous system is still wired for survival, your subconscious mind is calling bullshit. If you want real programming, you don't start with thought, you start with state.