A speaker uses the metaphor of divorcing your problem and marrying your solution to trigger real change. When you commit mentally to the solution, you naturally seek new books and podcasts about it, drop friends who keep you stuck in the problem, and find people who support where you're going.
You got to divorce the problem and marry the solution. Go ahead and decide that in your mind right here, right now. I'm divorcing the problem and I'm marrying the solution. As you marry the solution, you're going to accidentally start to reach for some different books. You're going to accidentally start to listen to some different podcasts. You're going to accidentally fire a lot of your old friends. You're going to accidentally hire you some new friends. And these new friends are going to be friends who are talking you into it instead of talking you out of it.
