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Before you start anything big, get clear on what you want, calibrate your expectations and strategy to reality, then build confidence. The speaker walks through this three-step formula across gym routines, dating, business plans, and more.

Before you start anything big, get clear on what you want, calibrate your expectations and strategy to reality, then build confidence. The speaker walks through this three-step formula across gym routines, dating, business plans, and more.
I'm not saying don't go to the gym. I'm saying get clear, calibrated, and confident, and then go to the gym. I'm not saying don't go back to school. I'm saying get clear, calibrated, and confident, then go back to school. I'm not saying that you can't never date again after your divorce. I'm saying get clear about what you want in a relationship, get calibrated to what you want next relationship to look and feel like, and keep calibrating until you become confident and what you want that to look like, and then start back dating. You see what I'm saying? Get clear, get calibrated, get confident, then take action. You could build a website, but get clear, get calibrated, get confident, then build a website. Do the business plan, but get clear, get calibrated, get confident, and then build a business plan.