How to Actually Change Your Life: In You, On You, For You

Jay Shaw breaks down personal change into three stages: rewiring your mind, changing your behavior and choices, then seeing results in money, relationships, and your life. The shifts happen in that order, not all at once.
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Coach, what does it look like when it's working in me? Versus is literally going to change the neural pathways in your brain. It's going to make new connections in your brain. It's going to starve old connections that no longer serve you. Versus is going to change your neurology. That's what we call working in you. And once it's done working in you, then it's going to start working on you. Coach, what does it look like when it works on me? It's going to change your facial expression. It's going to change your mannerisms. It's gonna change how you shake hands. It's gonna change how you introduce yourself. You're gonna accidentally start to price your services different. You're gonna accidentally negotiate your salary different. You're gonna walk into environments that you've been in thousands of times before, but you're gonna start seeing things that you have been there the whole time. Yeah. Wow. How did I not know? You're gonna read books that you read before. Somebody gonna say, you read Think and Grow Rich? You gonna say, yeah, I read, man. I read Think and Grow Rich. Everybody read Think and Grow Rich. But you gonna pick up Think and Grow Rich and you gonna say, oh wow. Ain't no way this was in here the first time I— yeah, it was in there. It wasn't in you. Now that it's in you, you're gonna see new things out there. Then it's gonna work for you. That's when it works on the bank account. That's when it works on the relationships. That's when it starts to change what's in the garage and who's sleeping beside. First it's gonna work in you, then it's gonna work on you, and then it's gonna work for you.










