If You Can Create By Accident, You Can Create On Purpose

21 Aug 2026 · 1 min
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In this reflective monologue, the speaker recounts the moment of realizing that their children were "created" unintentionally—born from a desire for fun rather than a deliberate plan. This epiphany sparks a broader question: if something as profound as a child can arise by accident, what could be achieved through purposeful creation? The speaker describes a pivotal shift from a habit of venting dissatisfaction with military life alongside fellow service members to a new practice of asking themselves what they truly want. The narrative moves from accidental creation, to intentional desire, to a conscious reorientation toward personal agency and purposeful living.

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