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A hypnosis and NLP expert argues that real influence starts with controlling yourself, not others. Master self-discipline first, and you won't need to manipulate anyone else.

A hypnosis and NLP expert argues that real influence starts with controlling yourself, not others. Master self-discipline first, and you won't need to manipulate anyone else.
I've been studying hypnosis, NLP, and influence and why we do what we do for 2 decades. And one of the things that we understand about influence is step one to influencing anything or anybody is knowing what outcome I want. I can't begin to influence anything until I know what outcome I want. And if that's true for me to influence somebody outside of myself, that's equally true when it comes to me influencing me. Like when I tell people I teach mind control, they think I'm gonna teach them how to control somebody else's mind. Let me tell you something, I could teach you how to control somebody else's mind, but when you learn how to control you, you don't really need to control anybody else. When you can make you go to the gym when you say you're gonna go to the gym, when you can make you eat a certain way, when you can make you do certain things, when you can make you