Stop chasing what you don't want and start designing the life you do.

30 Apr 2026 · 1 min
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Not getting sick isn't the same as being vibrant. Not failing in business isn't the same as building something that generates passive income. The speaker argues most people chase what they don't want instead of designing what they actually do want.

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