A taxi driver analogy shows why focusing on what you don't want leaves you lost. You tell the driver what to avoid, not where to go. The same happens with your goals: clarity means knowing what you actually want, not just what you're running from.
Imagine if you were a taxi driver and you pulled up to pick somebody up and you think you say, hey, where are we going? They get in the car, they say, don't take me to the mall, I hate them all, I hate them all, I can't stand them all, it's too expensive, all those teenagers up there, parents not watching their kids, you know what's wrong with this generation, man? When we was growing up, that's not what I asked you. Where do you want to go? That's how a lot of people are going through life. All of their clarity is in what they don't want. So step 1 is get clear about what do I want?
