Anchor your confidence to your internal purpose, not external wins like money or followers. When you tie confidence to results, it crashes the moment they disappoint. Keep recalibrating to your own mission and your nervous system learns to stay steady regardless of what happens around you.
When you clear, calibrated, and confident in what you're building, it don't matter if your mom say, I don't think that's a good idea. I don't think you should do it. It don't matter if your spouse say, baby, you always trying something. Maybe you should just give up on this whole entrepreneur. Baby, I love you, but in this aspect, I'm not calibrated to you. Mama, I love you, but when it comes to my goal, I'm not calibrated to you. Does that make sense? You don't wanna calibrate out there. You wanna calibrate in here. You don't want to calibrate to how many people in your room. You want to calibrate to the purpose that you have to fulfill. You don't want to calibrate to how much money in the account. You want to calibrate to the to the clarity that you got in step one. Now that way, no matter what's going on in the bank account, you still got access to your confidence. You still got access to your body language. You still can go out and shake hands and look people in the eye and feel like a man and feel like a woman that people want to do business with. Does that make sense? But if you calibrate into the bank account, when the bank account is doing what you wanted to do, you feel confident. But the instant it's not doing what you wanted to do, now you don't even have access to your confidence. When you calibrate Calibrated how many followers you got on TikTok. When the followers are going up, you feel great and you got access to your confidence. But the instant the following slows down, now your shoulders down and your enthusiasm is gone. Don't calibrate out there. Get clear about what you want, calibrate to that, and keep calibrating that until your nervous system becomes confident in that. Put a one in the chat if that makes sense.
