Willpower only matters when your actions fight who you are. If you're angry and yell, that's not a willpower failure—it's alignment. Stop forcing yourself to act differently. Instead, become someone whose natural instincts match what you want to do.
Because the thing about it is your behavior follows your being. You only need willpower when you're going against who you be. When you're acting in alignment with who you be, you, you all of a sudden just don't need willpower. Let me ask you something. When you be angry, when you be angry, when you be pissed off, do you have to try to stomp your feet? Do you need willpower to stomp your feet, or do you need willpower not to stomp your feet when you be pissed off? No. When you be angry, do you need willpower to raise your voice, or do you need willpower to not raise your voice? When you be angry, do you need willpower to slam the door, or do you need willpower to— I mean, do you need willpower to slam the door, or do you need willpower to not slam the door? It— I be all right. It's the do I'm confused about. If you— when you be, the doing gonna find you. Doing the crazy— what screws a lot of people up is doing is not your job.
