Jay Shaw explains why people dismiss your ideas and efforts: you're not clear on what you want, you haven't calibrated your approach to reality, and you lack the confidence to back yourself. Get those three things right before you go live, network, diet, or date.
Why would I watch your stream if you're not clear, calibrated, and confident? Now get clear, get calibrated, get confident, and then go live. Get clear, calibrated, and confident. Now you're actually talking about something, and it's not performative. You calibrate it to it. So because you calibrate it to your face is bald, into your hand gestures, the stories that you— it is different. Gee, I tried networking. Networking don't work. I think it's because I'm in a small city. Maybe I should move to LA. Maybe I should move to New York. No, maybe you should get clear, calibrated, and confident and take your butt right back in that same room. Because if you take your unclear, uncalibrated, unconfident self to New York, they're gonna swallow you. You can't— you can't network in Arkansas and you think you're gonna go to LA and network. Get clear, calibrated, and confident. Get clear, calibrated, and confident, then go networking. Does that make sense? Get clear, calibrated, and confident, and then cut out the carbs. Get clear, calibrated, and confident, and then go back to school. Get clear, calibrated, and confident, and then start back dating. Why are you out here dating if you clear, calibrated, and confident in the fact that there are no more good men left? What you out there for then? All women are gold diggers. Why you out there? Get clear, calibrated, and confident in what you actually want, then go out there.
