23 Mar 2026 · 2 min
Stop complaining, comparing yourself to others, and criticizing people. These three habits kill joy and damage relationships. Try cutting all three for one week and see what changes.
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There's 3 things that are killing your joy, your happiness, your success, your abundance, your love, your ecstasy, all the things that we deserve as human beings. And you know what they are? It's complaining, it's comparison, and it's criticism. Complaining, comparison, and criticism. Show me a person that's always in complaint, and I will show you a person that doesn't have joy, ecstasy, fun, abundance, a life worth living. Show me a person that's always comparing themselves to everybody else. 'Cause it always leads back to one thing. I'm not enough. I'm not smart enough. I'm not the best. Look at how handsome he is. Look how great she is. If you're constantly comparing yourself to everybody else, it's a lose-lose scenario versus what can I do today to be the best version of me, right? What can I do today to be the best version of myself today? It's a way better strategy. But the last one, you wanna talk about a way to kill a relationship, kill yourself, kill your business, is to constantly just be in a state of criticism that you're just nitpicking at everything that's wrong. I don't like what Zillow's doing and I don't like what this person's doing and I can't believe that person sleeps with all their clients and that's how they get all their business, right? Like this argument for constantly picking things apart, we know what it is. It's just your own insecurities. It's the way that you say, this is how I could feel better about myself by like basically trying to trash everything else. So I'm just asking you, maybe just for this Monday, if you want more joy, if you want more happiness, if you want more success, if you want more abundance, if you want more of everything that life offers us. Get rid of the comparison, get rid of the complaining, get rid of the criticism just for one week, and then let me know what happens. Send me a DM and tell me you got rid of the 3 C's and what happened.