A man explains why complimenting someone's appearance right away signals low status. Wait 10-15 minutes into conversation, then compliment something like their shoes instead. The mystery about what you actually want makes you seem more attractive.
Bombshell blonde, lots of guys come up and talk to her. What's going on her mind when you come up and automatically give her a compliment? You're lowering your status because a lot of guys come up and compliment her right off the bat. So it's almost like if you're gonna go up to a celebrity and you're like, oh my gosh, I'm such a big fan, can I get an autograph? They're automatically gonna look at you as a fan, not like an equal status. So you want to come up to her and have like a regular conversation. And if you are gonna compliment her 10-15 minutes into the conversation, you don't want to say like, oh, you're so beautiful. You might be like, oh, I really, I like your shoes. What are What are your shoes? Just like some random thing that's not complimenting how beautiful she is. Because if you do that too quickly, you're gonna lower your status. You would want her to feel like she doesn't know if you really like her or not. It's more like a mystery. When it's more of a mystery if you like her or not, she tends to like view you a little bit more higher status.
