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Complimenting an attractive woman immediately signals low status, like approaching a celebrity. Wait several minutes, then offer a subtle, non-appearance compliment about something like her shoes. The mystery makes her see you as higher status.
Complimenting an attractive woman immediately signals low status, like approaching a celebrity. Wait several minutes, then offer a subtle, non-appearance compliment about something like her shoes. The mystery makes her see you as higher status.
Bombshell blonde. Lots of guys come up and talk to her. What's going on her mind. When you come up and automatically give her a compliment, you're lowering your status. Because a lot of guys come up and compliment her right off the bat. So it's almost like if you're gonna go up to a celebrity and you're like, oh, my gosh, I'm such a big fan. Can I get an autograph? They're automatically gonna look at you as a fan, not like, an equal status. So you want to come up to her and have, like, a regular conversation. And if you are gonna compliment her 10, 15 minutes into the conversation, you don't want to say, like, oh, you're so beautiful. You might be like, oh, I really. I like your shoes. What are your shoes? Just, like, some random thing that's not complimenting how beautiful she is. Because if you do that too quickly, you're going to lower your status. You'd want her to feel like she doesn't know if you really like her or not. It's more like a mystery. When it's more of a mystery if you like her or not, she tends to give you a little bit more higher status.
