A college friend with no particular charm succeeded with women by ignoring rejection and making more offers. The speaker argues most people overcomplicate dating and business by seeking testimonials or free work first, when the real strategy is simple: keep asking, accept rejection, and move on.
I had a friend in college, bro. Ugly, fat, like fucked up teeth, you know, short. But he used to go, man, like we used to go clubbing and every time he would just get a girl. And like, you know, we look at the guy and we're like, the results don't correlate with, you know, the person. So it's like, bro, what are you doing that we're not? He just said it's so simple. He said, well, it's very simple, bro. When a girl says no, I just go on to to the next. And if she says no, I just go on to the next because somebody is going to say yes. And I don't talk to him much, but that shit was enlightening. That guy was the enlightened person. He just knew what to do. Just make more offers. Like, I don't think people need to overcomplicate it. And I think that when people are like, let me like work for free first, let me get some testimonials first, I think that's cope for not wanting or not having the courage to be able to be told no.
