A coach helps someone stuck in a victim mindset by reframing how to think about bullying. The core idea: people act from their own needs, not to hurt you personally. When you stop taking things personally, you stop feeling like a victim.
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Hi, so just had a quick check-in call with one of my solution-focused coaching clients. Struggled with a lot of issues in their, in their life with bullying and find it hard not to feel like a victim sometimes. So we've just had a Quick catch-up to kind of reiterate the fact that nothing ever happens to you. People don't do things to you either. People do things from their own perspective and to fulfill their own needs, and things do just happen. And if you can remember that, then you never have to take anything personally ever again. And you never have to feel like a victim. I hope you have a great day, and I'll speak to you again soon.