John Kenny lists five personality traits to look for before committing: emotional maturity, kindness, ambition, respect, and a sense of humor. He argues you're better off single than with someone who lacks these qualities.
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Hello. So I work with my clients to help them to create and attract healthy, loving, intimate relationships. And it's okay to be single while you're looking for the right type of person. It's probably best for you to stay single until you find the right personality traits of someone you're looking for. So here are 10. The first 5 are emotional maturity and emotional intelligence. This is a crucial one as it will show someone can handle emotional situations. Handle your emotions and theirs in a healthy way. Number 2, they are kind. So keep an eye out for some kindness. May seem obvious, but kindness is underrated, and prioritizing it means that nice people don't necessarily have to come last. Number 3, that they've got some kind of ambition, that they have a drive to achieve their own personal goals. Number 4, they show respect. This is a massive thing when I speak to my couples clients, especially the respect has gone from the relationship. And number 5, they have a sense of humor.