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How To Find Your Gold

6 Apr 2019 · 1 min

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In this short solo talk, John Kenny – The Relationship Guy – challenges viewers to examine the true nature of their goals using the metaphor of "the gold at the end of your rainbow." He asks a series of reflective questions: how will you feel when you achieve your aims, how you define success, and whether those aims stem from your own values and principles or from internal and external expectations. Kenny urges the audience to consider the emotional payoff of their objectives and to ensure that the "gold" they pursue genuinely aligns with who they are before they set out to chase it.

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So I read something the other day which I reposted, which was, what is the gold at the end of your rainbow? Do you actually know when you're aiming for things what you actually want? How do you know when you're going to have reached the things that you want? How will you feel? How do you define your own success? Are these things that align with your own values and your principles? Or are they from expectations from yourself based on what you think you should do? Are they expectations from other people? When you're thinking about what you want, think about how you're going to feel, and is that something for you? What is the gold at the end of your rainbow? And specifically, is that gold something that you really want? Thanks for watching, and I'll speak to you soon.