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Phrases People Use to Manipilate You Part Two

14 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this short YouTube monologue, relationship coach John Kenny presents the second half of his "Top 10 Things People Do to Manipulate You" series, covering items 6 through 10. He explains each manipulative phrase, describing the underlying tactic—such as gaslighting, blame‑shifting, entitlement, or isolation—and how the phrase is used to control or undermine the target. The video serves as a concise educational guide for viewers to recognize and resist these specific verbal strategies in relationships.

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Hello and welcome to the top 10 things that people do to manipulate you, part 2. I'm John Kenny, The Relationship Guy, relationship expert, relationship coach. And number 6 is you are being too dramatic. Usually, uh, this is used by someone who's being dramatic and overreacts all the time. Number 7, you're being paranoid. Another gaslighting technique, uh, making you question your own thoughts and your own sanity. Number 8, look what you've made me do. Not accepting any responsibility for their own behavior and blaming everybody else for the way that they do things. Number 9, after all that I do for you. Yes, you must be eternally grateful for everything they do for you, and you must also reciprocate and jump when they say. And number 10, I am the only one who really cares about you. Isolation tactic. 101. Thank you for watching. Keep an eye out for other relationship videos, top 10s, etc., and I'll speak to you soon.