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The First P of The P.E.O.P.L.E. Programme

30 Mar 2017 · 2 min

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In this introductory video, relationship coach John Kenny outlines the first component—"P" for Problems—of his PEOPLE programme. He explains that identifying the problems that affect a person’s life and relationships is the foundation for the entire process. Kenny describes how to evaluate problems by considering their scope, duration, and which areas of relationships they impact. He then introduces the analytical framework of the "3 W's": 1. Who – examining the actions of oneself and others, and identifying specific people who may be central to the issues. 2. When – pinpointing the situations or times when the problems surface and are most influential. 3. What – exploring what is actually happening, including spoken words, actions, thoughts, emotions, and resulting behaviours. The video serves as a brief overview, encouraging viewers to reflect on these questions and promising a deeper dive into the next element (E) in a subsequent video.

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Hello and welcome to the first video where we go through the PEOPOL program, each part in a little bit more detail. Now, the first P is really important because this kind of sums up everything that is happening in our lives and what is happening within our relationships, and that is the problems. So, in this, we will look at what is affecting your life, And what are the problems that you have? How long have they been an issue? And are these problems things that affect every area of your relationships? And if not, what areas are affected? When do they occur the most? When are they at their most powerful and influential on your life? We will look at the 3 W's. The first W is who. So what do you do? What do other people do? Are there specific people that cause most of the issues? And then we look at the when. When does it occur? In what situations? And then we have the what. What is actually happening? What has been said? What has been done? What are the likely situations? What are you thinking? What are your emotions? And then what behaviour? Occurs because of those things. That's just a brief introduction to the first letter of the PEOPLE programme. Please look out for the next video where we'll talk a little bit more detail about the E. Thanks for watching today. I am John Kenny. Take care of yourself.