Kareen MillsFounder & CEO, Friendsgiving Live® · Most Influential Filipina ’23 🏆 Founder of the World’s Largest Friendsgiving Festival for Women | Angel | Keynote | Sugar Mommy™ Media | Psalm 25:1 ✞

Choose the harder choice. #midlife

15 Jan 2026 · 1 min

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In this motivational monologue, the speaker reflects on a pivotal morning decision: whether to skip a planned morning routine and join a game of pickleball, or to follow through with the routine and do work on their laptop. Emphasizing the importance of clarity in choices, the speaker argues that the immediate fun of pickleball does not serve long‑term purpose, whereas completing the reps and laptop work aligns with personal goals. The tone is candid and determined, underscoring that disciplined, purpose‑driven decisions, even when they seem boring, are essential for progress.

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There's moments in your life you have to make a choice. And my choice this morning after breakfast, because I had not done my morning routine, because I had not put in the reps, was between putting in the reps or going to go join the game of pickleball. Now here's how you know what you want. You will be so clear when presented an option or a choice of choosing one or the other when you know what Do you understand? It's not about being boring. Oh, she's so boring. Oh, she's, you know, she's party pooper. I mean, you can call me whatever the fuck you want. But here's the deal. Here's the deal. Pickleball right now was not going to serve my purpose. Doing some reps on my laptop is going to. So, I'm going to go do that.