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Is my boyfriend a safe bet to marry? #personalpersonal #marriageadvice

20 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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This content was created by Kareen Mills. This content was uploaded by Kareen Mills. This is a YouTube video titled "Is my boyfriend a safe bet to marry? #personalpersonal #marriageadvice" (created 2024-11-20). It features a single speaker offering marriage and personal-finance advice, urging viewers to "underwrite" a prospective spouse. The speaker walks through specific evaluation points: $45,000 in debt (asking why and what kinds of debt), ownership of two houses (mortgages vs. free-and-clear), two children and child support (asking about income and obligations), and what the viewer would contribute to the relationship.

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My boyfriend has $45,000 in debts, 2 houses, 2 kids, and pays child support. Is he a safe bet to marry? I thought you'd never ask. Okay, boys and girls, listen to Mama. Here's what I always say: underwrite your future spouse. So let's underwrite this boyfriend together. Number 1, $45,000 in debts. Underwriting questions: Why that much debt? What were the reasons of the debt? And what kind of debts are they? Number 2, 2 houses. Underwriting questions: What are the mortgages, or is it free and clear? And last but not the least, number 3, 2 kids and pays child support. Underwriting questions: How much money does he make? Here's a sucker punch bonus underwriting question: What do you bring to the table as your