Why Negative Comments Control Visibility

Invisibility feels safer. You're not being laughed at. That's why a lot of people are not consistent on social media, because there's haters out there, there's trolls, and that one negative comment, that one negative comment literally eats you alive. You start manufacturing how you should respond to it in your mind. It keeps you up at night. That's why we're so scared of being visible, because we process things differently as women. We try to We play it safe. That's why I've been playing it safe for so long. And finally my mentor says, you need to be polarizing. You can't be bipolar on social media because you won't have people buying your stuff. You become complicated when you are bipolarizing on social media. And remember, simplicity sells. Simplicity makes money.