Rob Lipsett argues you should find what comes naturally to you, because what feels effortless to you looks extraordinary to others. Your pain becomes power when you use it to help people facing the same struggles.
Your mission is to find that. What do you do best with least amount of effort? Some things you think are obvious are mind-blowing to other people. The things you do naturally that are simple to you are mind-blowing to other people. Don't undervalue what you have, the pain you've overcome. I always work with clients to turn their pain into power because your experience, your hurt, is going to help other people overcome. Like, there's hurdles you've jumped over other people can't get over. And I believe our mission in this life is to make the world a better place. The service of others— when you're fully aligned, it's really about helping others. That's the key.