A man describes moving from scarcity to abundance mindset after a breakup, arguing that neediness is the most unattractive trait and creates a self-fulfilling prophecy of failed interactions with women.
So what I learned the most was when I went from in a relationship to single, and again, I didn't have a clue what to do. The biggest thing for me, so I went from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset, because when you are desperate and needy, that is what I've found is the most unattractive thing a man can be. Yeah, when you're in that mindset, sometimes you can't break yourself out of it. When I was in that mindset, I just— you almost know that you're gonna mess up every girl like in communication with, you just know deep down you're gonna mess it up and you can't help yourself.
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