Matthew Hussey shares three text message examples designed to spark attraction and get a date. He explains the psychology behind playful confidence and when to use each one.
In this video, I'm going to give you three specific texts that you can send to a guy that are bold and confident and will spike attraction at the same time as leading to a date. Number one, you send him a message that says, I'm craving our conversation. Here's what this message does. You've snuck into his day and jolted him out of whatever he's doing right now to bring him into the moment with you. It wasn't small talk. Hey, how you doing? What you up to? How's your day going? You just jumped straight into something meaningful. And you've paid a unique compliment to the dynamic you have with him. It's not about your bed connection, it's about your head connection. It's about the fact that you have a deeper connection with him. You miss your conversation. The best part is, even though you've done all of that with this message, you still haven't been the one to ask him on a date. It's just gonna make him want to ask you on a date. Number two, ahem. Why haven't you asked me to see the new Blade Runner yet? This message is adorably demanding in a playful way. It's vulnerable on one hand. You know, you are saying, I want to do this with you. It's also slightly unreasonable because he didn't even necessarily know that you wanted to see that film. In fact, I would say this message works better if he didn't even know you wanted to do that thing. And you're being upfront about what you want. You're putting the ball in his court and saying, hey, mister, invite me on this date, please. Message number three, it's Taco Tuesday. Let's go get tacos and a margarita tonight. This is the all-out get off the sofa, get in the game. Let's go have some fun message. You send this message and he's thinking, that's a super confident, bold message. She didn't know whether I was busy tonight or not, which means she took a risk, a 50 50 risk that I would even be available to. tonight. That's kind of hot. What kind of person sends that message? A high value person, someone who believes in their own worth, someone who thinks that they're worth dropping everything for to come and do something last minute. The certainty you came in with is the thing that makes him that much more likely to say, screw it, I'm in. And by the way, these three messages show a really fun, cool side of you. So save them for the guy who's actually trying with you. Don't use them on the guy who's completely gone cold and isn't investing. If you enjoyed this and you want nine more text messages you can use for anyone you're attracted to, go to 9texts.com to download my free guide and I will see you next week.
