In this short dating‑advice video, Matthew Hussey warns women about three common things they say that unintentionally kill a man’s attraction. First, when a man shares something serious about his life (e.g., his work or a mission‑driven organization), responding with “that’s cute” dismisses the importance he places on the topic. Second, calling a man’s dancing “funny” undermines his confidence because men already struggle to appear graceful, so the comment makes them feel clumsy. Third, reacting with disbelief or mock‑surprise when a man admits he hasn’t seen a well‑known movie (e.g., Pulp Fiction) makes him feel like an idiot. Hussey explains that these remarks are misguided attempts at teasing—a powerful flirting technique when done correctly. He then promotes his “How to Talk to Men” program, offering the entire teasing chapter for free via a download link, and encourages viewers to get the chapter to learn proper teasing methods.
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Watch until the end of this video because I'm going to be giving you something that will change the way you flirt with men forever. Before we do that, let's talk about the three things that women often say to men that kill his attraction for her without women even knowing it most of the time. Now, full disclaimer ladies, I know that I could fill an entire book with the unattractive things that men say to you, But that would be telling you what you already know. So let's begin. Number one, you ask him a question about a part of his life that's important to him, like for example his work. And he says, oh, I don't know. I started an organization that empowers women in their love lives. And she says, oh, that's so cute. No, man. wants to hear that an area of his life that he takes seriously is cute. Number two, you're so funny when you dance. Guys have a hard enough time doing anything elegant like dancing in a way that looks cool. So telling him he looks funny when he does it is just gonna make him feel like he can't express himself around you in fun and spontaneous ways. All it's gonna do is shut him down. And lastly, number three. He says he hasn't seen or done something or doesn't know something that's slightly embarrassing not to know. For example, you're talking about movies and he says, I've never seen Pulp Fiction. Instead of going, oh really? Oh, you should watch it, it's so great, we should watch it sometime. You go, Really? Are you joking? You've never seen Pulp Fiction. Instead of feeling cool and connected to you right now, he just feels like an idiot. The great irony of all of these examples is that they're sort of teasing a guy, but they're doing it the wrong way. Teasing is an incredibly powerful form of flirting. It might be one of the most powerful forms of flirting when done right. It's for that very reason that when I created How to Talk to Men, which some of you know is my highest selling program on attraction of all time, I dedicated an entire chapter to teasing as one of the great forms of flirting. gift to you today is this chapter of the program. I want to make sure that you know how to tease a guy and know how to create that attraction. So even if you haven't got the entire How To Talk To Men program, I'm giving you the teasing chapter today for free. To download it, all you have to do is go to www.getthefreechapter.com let's link it up here Jameson, www.getthefreechapter.com and you can be downloading that and reading it right now. Thank you so much, guys. I'll see you on that page now.