In this concise, conversational video, Matthew Hussey (presented as “Matthew AI”) outlines five concrete flirting techniques designed to make a man want to kiss you. The advice is framed as simple, actionable behaviors that can be woven into a date: (1) introduce light, non‑sexual touch; (2) take a sip of your drink to draw attention to your lips while looking away; (3) glance at his lips after eye contact to create a seductive cue; (4) playfully call out when he looks at you in a “sexy” way, using the phrase “you can’t look at me like that” and then look away to build tension; (5) adopt a cute, vulnerable stance when he teases you, saying “don’t be mean to me.” Hussey explains the psychological rationale behind each move—building physical contact, highlighting facial features, creating subtle tension, and triggering protective or affectionate responses. The video concludes with a promotional plug for his “How to Talk to Men” program, offering a free chapter on flirting lines via a linked website.
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Okay, let's just get down to business. Five ways to make him want to kiss you. Number one, Touch him. Now, I don't mean his groinal region. I just mean touch him somewhere, even innocently, on the arm. That actually looks good. What that guy has over there. Because on a date, when two people haven't even touched, made physical contact for the entire date, and then all of a sudd, one of them has got to think about leaning in and kissing the other one. That feels like going from zero to 60 miles an hour. But if you've been introducing light and carefree touch throughout the date, kissing is a much more natural progression. Number two, take a sip. When you take a sip of your drink, it engages your lips, so it draws attention to them. But at the same time, if you look away, it has the added benefit of giving him a moment to look at you and, and take you in without you staring right back at him. That is too funny, Monkey. That is something that we actually don't get to do that frequently on a date. And when someone is looking at us, that's when they get a chance to really get attracted. Number three, glance at his lips. Now, the more slowly you do this, the more seductive it's going to be. But if you take a moment to look into his eyes and then look down at his lips and then back up at his eyes, that moment becomes a very seductive moment. Even if it's unconscious, even if he doesn't know that you're actually looking at his lips, he registers that you're taking him in in a different way. So, like, what part of the jungle were you in when that happened? Number four, when he looks at you in a certain sexy way, maybe he smiles with it. I want you to say to him, you can't look at me like that. The words you can't, followed by looking away creates this real tension in the moment you're telling him something he can't do. Always very sexy when done playfully. And in that moment when you look away, there's that vulnerability to it, too. It's like he's doing something to you that he shouldn't be. Monkey, you can't look at me like that. Number five, do the cute act. Choose a moment when he's teasing you to give him a serious face, when he thinks you should be laughing and say, don't be mean to me. Don't be mean to me. And when someone's being cute and adorable, you just want to grab them and kiss them. That's the effect we're going for. Look, these five things I've just given you are essentially just practical ways to flirt. I have a program called how to Talk to Men, and one of the chapters in that program is specifically about giving you lines and things you can do to flirt. Well, I am gifting you that chapter absolutely, absolutely free today. All you need to do to get that is go to get the free chapter dot com. I'll link it up here. Click that link, download the free chapter, and you can be using these techniques today.
