Are Vulnerable Women Weak?

Vulnerability isn't weakness, it takes courage. The speaker argues that women who show vulnerability are actually demonstrating strength, not fragility, and encourages taking emotional risks as part of personal growth.
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Hello from London. We're in Trafalgar Square right now. It's just started raining. We're gonna, all right, we're gonna do this anyway. This is gonna be a quick video, but I wanted to talk about the difference between vulnerability and weakness, because too often I speak to women who conflate the two. They think that vulnerability is weakness by definition. So I thought I'd actually read out the definitions today of vulnerability versus weakness. Vulnerable, get this, susceptible to physical or emotional attack or harm. And it comes from the Latin word vulnerare. Is it vulnerare or vulnerare? We're gonna, those of you that speak Latin out there can tell me which is the correct pronunciation, but it means to wound, weakness, the state or condition of lacking strength. I find this very interesting because to be vulnerable is essentially to admit that you can be wounded and in acknowledgement of that to move forward anyway. If you think about it, most of us are afraid of being vulnerable because we're afraid we'll be perceived as weak. But by definition, it takes courage to be vulnerable, to admit that you can be wounded, to get in the boxing ring and know that you might get hit. And the irony is that the weakest people in the world are the ones that can't be vulnerable. They're the ones that never put themselves up for pain, never put themselves up for hurt. Those of you that are avoiding relationships right now or avoiding approaching that guy because you're afraid that you'll be vulnerable, know that that's not strength. Strength isn't standing in a corner, putting up these walls around yourself and stopping yourself from actually getting hurt in the first place. That's not strength. That's a fake kind of strength. But it's just this veneer and as soon as it comes down, what you have is a really weak person who lacks courage. I have women come to my seminars all the time who are so terrified of their own vulnerability that they never actually put themselves in the game. And I don't want you to be one of those people because those people end up dead inside because they never actually end up living. Just because you exist, it doesn't mean you're living. Living is when you're actually putting yourself out there, throwing some punches and acknowledging that you might get hit in the process. And by the way, have the trust in yourself and your own strength to know that you can heal from that. that you can get over it, that however badly you're wounded you can pick up and get going again. But don't be so afraid to be wounded that you actually hide away in a corner and never put yourself up for it. So that's it for today my friends. If you want to get vulnerable go out there and take some risks. If you want to know how to take those risks and the right way to do it go check out my programs. You know I have a bunch of them online. We'll link them up below and you can see what we have available. Alright guys, I will see you soon. Take care. Love you from London. Maybe the next time I see you, I think I'll be in the States. So I'll see you soon. Be prepared to be vulnerable. Be prepared to stand up and stand alone if you have to. Like that blue cock. Best video ending ever. Very good.










