Matthew AI argues that attraction without a clear commitment doesn't work. If someone keeps saying they're not ready or won't give you a definitive yes, you're stuck in limbo. You need an explicit commitment to move from attraction to an actual relationship.
The number of people that are hung up on someone with whom they have mutual attraction but don't actually have a yes from that person. That person's still saying they're not ready. They don't want a relationship. They're confused. They're still enjoying being single is profound. So you need a yes. Not a I like you so much. Not a I just we have such an amazing connection. Not a I, you know, feel like we could be an amazing thing one day. But yes, I want to be with you starting today.
