Crush Your Fear of Rejection in 3 Minutes (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

On a long enough timeline, we are all gonna have duds. Whether it's going over to talk to someone and they reject you, whether it's trying something new in your career, creating something new, we are going to have things that don't work out. And that's true of everybody. The best of the best in the world experience duds. You're a Michael Jackson fan? Do you remember him for Heartbreaker? No, you probably don't even know that song. But you remember him for Billie Jean or Dirty Diana or Man in the Mirror. We remember people for their highlights, but we don't create the highlights unless we're willing to just keep attempting things, keep trying, keep screwing up, doing things that don't work out so that eventually we can make things that do work out, whether it's a relationship, whether it's a career path, whether it's something that you create in the world, we have to be prepared to have the duds, so that we can have the highlights. Think of a day that's going to be a highlight in your love life. Say your wedding day. Do you think on your wedding day when you are getting married to the love of your life that you're going to be thinking for one second about that guy you went on a date with once that never called you? Of course not. And this week when you go out and you talk to some guy and he gives you a cold reaction, you get rejected, whatever. This person is gonna be nothing to you later on. Every guy who's ever rejected you, every guy who never called you back, every guy who kept you casual instead of committing to you, none of them are gonna matter. We turn the extras in our lives into the protagonists. And these people aren't the leading roles. They literally, in the movie of our life, won't even be listed by name in the end credits. They'll be listed as Barista Number Two. The person you fall madly in love with who falls madly in love with you that you spend the rest of your life with, that's a leading role. The guy who's rejecting you today or not texting you back right now, that's an extra. And what we have to do is create enough moments, take enough risks, create enough opportunities for interesting and special things to happen, and recognize that a lot of those moments along the way are gonna produce duds, but we don't get the highlights if we're trying to avoid the duds. And before you go, if you have been watching this video and you realize that you have been coaching in your life and in the process losing the potential highlights. I have my live retreat coming up in October of this year. That's five and a half days where we get together and we work on your life. If you want to come and work with me in person and have a five and a half day transformative coaching experience, click this link and I will see you there. And remember, if logistically it's difficult for you to make my live retreat, but you still want to get the program, you still want the information, I have the at home version too. Both are at this link. Check it out and I will see you in next week's video.