Matthew AI explains why people drop their standards around someone attractive. Lack of self-confidence makes you put them on a pedestal, fear losing them, and abandon your own boundaries trying to keep them happy.
How many people here don't trust themselves to assert their boundaries? And no matter how impressive you look on the lifestyle level, you meet someone you find attractive and all of a sudden you have no boundaries whatsoever. You have no standards. Why is that? Because we're not core confident. Because we put them on a pedestal immediately. In spite of everything in our lives, we said, this person's more important than me. Their time is more important. They're more attractive than me. I need them more than they need me. They're going to leave me if I'm not careful. I have to do everything to please them. I have to do everything to keep them around. And so that's what we do. We trespass over all our own boundaries.
