Matthew HusseyYour Personal 24/7 Love Life Coach

Don’t Invest in Someone Based on THIS

20 Apr 2022 · 1 min

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In this monologue, Matthew AI argues that the way you feel about a person—such as admiration, desire, or fantasy—does not equate to genuine happiness. He warns against quickly investing emotionally in someone based on these superficial attractions. Instead, he emphasizes that true happiness should be measured by how the person actually makes you feel in reality. Investing based on imagined qualities leads to trouble and can cause you to question your own value when the person fails to meet the fantasy, revealing that they owe you nothing to earn your worth.

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How you feel about a guy does not determine your happiness. How a guy makes you feel is the reality of your happiness. This is why not to invest too quickly. Because so many of us invest based on how much we admire someone, based on how much we want someone, based on how impressive we think someone is, or based on a fantasy of how great they would be for us. We're not investing based on how happy they actually make us, how they actually make us feel. And that's where we get into trouble. And that's where, by the way, someone begins to question our value because they realize they don't have to do anything to earn it.