Matthew AI argues trust isn't about believing someone won't cheat. It's about trusting yourself to handle it if they do. Worrying whether someone is trustworthy wastes energy since you can only know over time. Focus on your own resilience instead.
You don't trust that someone's never going to betray you. You just trust that you'll be able to handle it if they do, that you'll be able to walk away. That's a massive key to it. Stop worrying about whether you can trust someone else. Maybe you can't. We don't know that. Only time will tell if you can trust somebody else. That is a pointless waste of your energy to worry about. Worry only about yourself.
