How To Look Sexy On A First Date (feat. Louise Roe) (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

Matthew Hussey and Louise Roe break down what to wear on different first dates, from casual park walks to dinner. They suggest practical touches like a leather jacket for balance, avoiding high heels if you'll be walking, and spritzing perfume on a borrowed sweater to leave an impression.
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So, Louise, I was saying in the car, don't be having a. You're already having a go. I haven't even told you what I was trying to achieve with this t-shirt. Okay, here's what I was thinking in the car. Here's the thing. Regardless of whether I did a good job of dressing myself today, after the next few minutes with Louise, we're all going to know how to be much, much sexier. We did a TV show. You know, you did a TV show. It was your show, Plane Jane.
We do go way back. I would make over women and help boost their confidence in many ways, like jumping out of airplanes and, you know, having real psychological moments together. And Matt was the incredible dating expert, and he came on and taught these women how to flirt, how to feel more confident, how to talk to guys.
I was a part of that show. Louise went on to write a book called Front Row, which you were telling me applies fashion to building your confidence. Yeah. Right.
Yeah. Fashion and makeup and hair and all the things that women can adorn themselves with in order to feel more confident on the inside.
I hate both extremes. When anyone says, the outside and what you do on the outside is the answer to all of your problems. That's an issue. And when everyone, anyone says, all you have to do is just be you, I always think, well, that's missing the point as well.
Well, you and I were chatting recently, and I said, let's do something together again. And I said, how about our outfit ideas for a first date? Because a first date could be the stereotypical romantic dinner. That's great. We're gonna cover that. But it also might be something really casual, like a picnic in the park. It might be going to a game together. It might be going to the beach. for a walk or shopping or anything. So why not? Why not go in armed with those things that will kick the date off as well as it could possibly go.
And I like the nuance between different kinds of dates because it's the idea of a first date is far too generic. Life doesn't really work like that.
Should we go shopping?
Let's do it. I actually love this outfit.
Do you?
Yeah, I genuinely do. It's sexy, but you're not trying too hot.
I'm so happy you said that because that is my goal for dating. I think women shouldn't, I'm going to come over and chat to you. You shouldn't be afraid to be a bit more casual. I'm wearing sneakers, but they're cute white sneakers.
The one thing I hate is when you see someone who comes to a date where maybe you are going to walk somewhere or whatever and they're wearing these giant heels.
Think about where you're going, what you're going to do, and then plan your outfit around that. But you want to still look a bit sexy. And so instead of a crew neck, I've gone for a v-neck t-shirt it's quite thin cotton. and I have done my hair and makeup.
Yeah, I like this a lot. This has my thumbs up. Not that my thumbs up counts for anything, but it does have my thumbs up. Next. Okay. Yeah, I love it. I love it. It's very summery.
It's a bit Riviera Chic.
You said it's so much better than I did. Riviera Chic. I love it.
When you wear lighter colors for summer like stripy blue and white jeans, you shouldn't wear them with dark black boots or strappy heels.
I love it. I actually love this outfit.
It's growing on you, isn't it?
If you just put, okay, here's the hard part. If you just pointed out this top to me on a rack, I wouldn't know if I'd like it or not. But when you put it all together with everything else, it looks great. Good.
Yeah, I like it.
All right, this is the third and final. You're doing well, so you're two for two. Two for two. Let's see what the last one is. The last one's gonna ruin it all.
Do you feel any pressure to react to that?
I feel pressure to like it, but I don't feel like, no, but I don't feel like I have to. I think the leather jacket on top sort of makes it for me. Should I be worried that without the leather jacket it would look too formal?
The fact that this dress is quite loose makes it not too over the top.
I like that there's a little splash, a smash mattering of color on the heels. I would never have said I like those shoes, by the way, if I saw them on the. On. Just on the ground, not on legs. They're a bit different to usual.
And you just said, you know, we've seen all these kind of crisscross, crisscross type black shoes, which are great, but sometimes they're intimidatingly sexy and they feel like a six inch stiletto heel ready to stab you, whereas these are a bit more ladylike. Oh, and also the leather jacket.
Throw it over your shoulders.
Don't put your arms. yeah, I. That's just a personal thing. I just think it's kind of chic. Another tip, forget the jacket entirely, because then you have to borrow the date.
Yeah, that's good.
And then here's a really good tip. If you go to the loo and you've spritzed a bit of your perfume on it, and then it'll smell of you, and subconsciously he will be reminded of you. I did that to my now husband, who's over there. Do you know that you've got.
You got sucker punched by the scent.
I borrowed his sweater. I actually spritzed the shit out of it. Yeah. It was all over it. And then a couple of weeks later, he was, oh, this smells of you. And I was like, duh. Clearly haven't washed it. Thee, girl.
Best tip ever.
I'm really scared of you now.
All right, my work is done.
That's really scary.
Jedi mind trick fashion. This is, this video has turned so dark. Matt. No, I like that you're in all black when you're saying this tip. Oh, my goodness. No, this is really good.
I love it.
I love every part of it.
So which was your favorite date look?
That's actually hard because I now I'm thinking in terms of scenarios and I feel like everyone was appropriate for its scenario. I love the first one though.
I thought you might say that because.
You can do that anywhere. You can wear that anywhere.
Casual is sexier than you think, right?
Yeah. Casual sexy cheek. Thanks for coming.
I had so much fun. Thank you. Thanks for having me. And also thanks for the Dress that you bought me that you don't know that you bought me. Thanks, bye.
Haha, very funny. Wait, why does my wallet smell of Louise? Mackenzie! She's done it again. Somebody stop her. Thank you so much guys for watching. We have enjoyed doing this video with you with our special guest Louise Rowe. If you haven't followed Louise yet on YouTube, Go and do that now. And to commemorate this special video, we are giving away the five compliments guide. That is the five things that you can say to a guy on a date where you're wearing your great outfit that will get him massively attracted to you. And for one person who downloads that free guide today, Louise is giving away a free Skype consultation on your style.
Yep, I will talk to you live, go through your likes and dislikes in closet and give you some amazing ideas and links, basically a personal styling session online.
Which nobody gets, by the way. I mean, that's an incredible thing. So the only way to get that is by downloading the guide. If you download the guide right now, you'll be in for a shot. We'll pick someone at random from all of those people. Thank you again, Louise, and thank you all for watching. —.










