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Lasting love means treating your partnership as a team against the problem, not against each other. When you know what makes your partner feel fulfilled and focus on their happiness alongside your own, both of you can relax and feel supported.

Lasting love means treating your partnership as a team against the problem, not against each other. When you know what makes your partner feel fulfilled and focus on their happiness alongside your own, both of you can relax and feel supported.
Is there a formula to make love last? When I see people genuinely being a team together, that, to me is always like, the sign is, are they really a team? When we're having an argument, are we competing with each other? Or ultimately, are we both looking at the problem together? Whether the problem comes from me or comes from you, are we looking at the problem together and going, the problem is the enemy? You're not the enemy. A team. I think if you can be a genuine team with your partner, which can mean also looking at what makes them happy, what are their needs, what makes them a happy person. Because if I've got your back, if I'm worried about what you need to be happy, and you're worried about what I need to be happy, then we could both relax, because we're both covered.