I Can Finally Tell You (BIG news) (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

What I'm about to tell you is the biggest announcement of my career. I also believe that it's the most life-changing opportunity I will have ever put in front of you. As such, this week really should have been the most exciting week of my career. And yet, I have been so worried that I'm not going to convey what I want to convey properly. because it's been 10 years in the making. And so this has become the most difficult video that I've ever had to do. So I decided I'm just going to speak from the heart and hopefully it flows and I say it in the way that I want to say it. An awful lot of you saw the video last week with Alexandria where I was on stage with this beautiful young woman and she was terrified of public speaking and I took her through a whole process and that ended up being about far more than her fear of public speaking. It ended up being about her anxiety and her depression and the internal battle that she was fighting within herself. That video resonated on a level that I have never seen from any of our videos. And that's saying something because we've done some videos that have gotten huge reactions, but this one was different. There was a. An outpour of emotion in response to this video. Her battle that she was fighting went beyond her external circumstances. It was a battle within herself. And that's something we're all dealing with. It's actually one of the most frustrating things about Get the Guy and all of the work that we do here, all of the work we do to help people in their love lives, to try and help people have standards, to try and help people get out there and bring out a different part of their persona if they never flirt. helping them with flirting tips, if they're not very good at communication, helping them communicate more effectively. The hardest part is that for so many people, the advice doesn't work. And that's not because it's bad advice, it's because people are fighting their own battles internally that stop them from believing that it's gonna work, or they don't even wanna take the risk to use the advice in the first place, or they're so afraid of losing someone or scaring someone away that they don't wanna have those standards, they're afraid to actually assert themselves. Now many of you know that that this is exactly why I created my retreat program all those years ago. Because I wanted something that helped people get out of their own way in every area of life. If you are somebody who has been watching my videos and loves when I talk about things that are bigger than just your love life, if you're somebody who follows these videos not just to get a guy, but to get an extraordinary life, if you're somebody who realizes that getting the guy is something that can only truly be done if you are happy, fulfilled and confident, I need you to listen to what I'm about to say. For years, there have been people all over the world who have been dying to get to my retreat program. You may be one of them, and you may never have physically been able to get to one. And I know that for many thousands of my clients, this has always been a source of sadness because they feel like the best part of what I do, the part that is the most holistic, the part that gets to the deepest root of our problems, has not been available to them. Today that changes. Wherever you are in the world, whatever far end of the earth you're in or whatever responsibilities you have that have stopped you from getting to a retreat, that's going to change now. I am making the retreat program available to people all over the world and in just a moment I will tell you how. Now first, I want you to understand why the retreat works. The retreat recognizes that there are three areas of life that we need to master. That if we don't master, we will never sustain an incredible relationship. The first one is sustaining motivation. Tapping into what actually fuels you in life, what gets you out of bed in the morning, and knowing how to tap into that every day. Because people make resolutions on January the 1st and then they never stick to them. why is that? It's not because they never have motivation. It's because they don't know how to tap into it every single day. The most successful people in life, the ones that go far in life and over the whole course of their lives, not just for a day, not momentary success, they're the ones that know how to sustain their drive. The second secret is learning how to master your emotions. Because I don't care what happens in your life, how successful you become, how much money you make, how, how toned your body gets. none of those things are going to impact on your happiness unless you can control your emotions. And one of the things we do on the retreat is we show people how to control their emotions. How do you actually tap into being happy every day? Because studies show success doesn't create happiness. Happiness creates success. If you want to be more successful, if you want that great relationship, if you want that great career, happiness comes first. It's the precursor. And then the third big secret that the retreat tackles is how to develop and cultivate true self worth. Even if you found the right relationship, lack of self-worth will have you sabotaging it. But most people don't even get the right relationship in the first place because they haven't got the self-worth to believe they're worthy of that. They put everyone on a pedestal. They're terrified of rejection. They're terrified of what everybody thinks. And that lack of self-worth shows up in every part of their life. They don't go take the risks they want in their work. They don't take the risks in confronting family members and asserting their standards and their boundaries with the people they're close to in life. And if you have self-worth It's something that's a safety net for everything in life. You could lose your job, you could lose your partner, you could lose your friends, you could lose everything. If you have what I call core confidence, true self-worth, then that is a safety net for anything that could happen in your life. Think about it. Get the guy and all of the content I give there on dating deals with how people perceive you. The retreat deals with how you perceive yourself. and once you change how you perceive yourself, once you change the relationship with yourself, everything changes. In fact, if you already have a Get the Guy program, you'll find that after the retreat, that program becomes 10 times more valuable because you actually start using it. When I started the retreat program about six years ago, I started with six people and I took these people away and my big idea was I have a process that takes five days that gets people to truly understand what it is to be confident, what it is to control your happiness each day, and what it is to actually tap into what you want in life and go after it. The program was so successful that it grew not because we started advertising it everywhere, it grew because the people on that program told the people they knew. They sent back family, they sent back friends, anyone they wanted to change the life of or save the life of, they would send back to this program. One of those people was Siobhan. Siobhan came on the first ever retreat that I ran. She left, she got the career of her dreams because she came and worked for us afterwards. She said, I want to be mobile, I want to be able to work from wherever I want in the world, and I want to do it on my terms. And she ended up working for us, becoming somebody who wanted to talk about the retreats everywhere she went. She wanted a family. She felt like it was too late for her. Siobhan was in her late 30s when she came to us. to us. Shortly after the retreat, she met a man named Nick who became her husband. They have two beautiful kids together, Ethan and Oliver. I am the godfather now of these two children and it's still one of my proudest achievements to have been a part of that journey with Siobhan. The retreat grew and grew. It turned from six people to 30 people to 50 to 100 to 200. We now take over an entire resort when we run a retreat. But my biggest grievance with retreat is that so many people weren't able to make it. And that frustrated the hell out of me because people would come up to me and they would call me a dating coach and they would ask me for my top dating tips. And I knew that I could change these people's lives if I actually had time with them and if they understood fully what I do. It's why I'm so proud of the video with Alexandria because I had so many people saying, I knew about your retreats. I knew what they, you know, I had a kind of idea of what you did, but I didn't know you did that. I didn't know that they went to that level of depth, that that was the kind of transformation that happens on retreats. And even if you've seen that clip, you've seen nothing yet. Because the reality of the retreat is there is so much that goes on in that program over a 50-hour program that transforms people's lives. What people saw there was a mere slither. Here's been my dilemma over the course of my career. How do I make it so that more people can experience this program? the person who is on the other side of the world who for whatever reason can't get a visa to come to my program or simply can't get on a plane right now to fly or the person who is close but they have kids, they have responsibilities, they have a job, they simply cannot get out of those responsibilities for the exact date of the retreat. I understand that in the last three years I have taken on the challenge with Jameson, with my entire team, of figuring out how to get the retreat program to all of those people across the world who haven't been able to make it physically. We have filmed every part of the retreat. We then spent an entire year creating the architecture from all of this raw footage for the most powerful transformative life program we have ever created. We have taken the last three years to build The Matthew Hussey at home retreat. For anyone who's not been able to do a retreat but you have been waiting for your moment, this is it. It is so hard for me to sit here and to tell you about the value of this thing. It's hard to know where to even start. In fact, when you're talking about issues as vague as confidence and happiness, and fulfillment and living a great life is extraordinarily difficult not to sound trite. But you guys know me. You know that on the way in, you may have read a title for one of my videos that made it sound like it was going to be cliche or obvious advice. And yet, once you saw how we handled those subjects, you realized we were onto something a bit special, a bit different. and you know I don't normally talk about myself in this way but I feel like I have to right now because I need people to understand. You know that whenever I wrestle with a subject, I do it right. I think about it from every angle. I do my homework, I do my research and I don't just come up with platitudes or cliches. I actually focus on solving problems on a very very practical level. So you know When I'm dealing with the subject of your happiness, when I'm dealing with the subject of you becoming truly confident, the most confident version of yourself, when I'm dealing with your life and making the most of it, creating a masterpiece out of it, you know that I go deep on that subject. This is my life's work. And tomorrow on my private email list, I will be announcing the arrival of this and I will be telling you when it's gonna happen. You will only hear about this if you are on my private mailing list. My intention is not to bombard people on YouTube or on my blog with this. I want you to come and hear about this if you've chosen to. At the end of this video, I'm gonna give you a chance to sign up for that private mailing list where you will be told about this. And by the way, you'll also be directed back once you've signed up to the Alexandria video from last week in case you missed because I want you to see that. That will at least give you a taste. This is the first time that I feel like I've ever been able to truly be a teammate with you guys in the process of you achieving your dreams. And I'm a great teammate because the one thing I've been good at above all else is taking something that is in my mind as a starts as a fantasy and a dream and then turning it into a real vision and then a goal and then breaking it down and actually figuring out the steps to get there. That's me. That's what I do well. And for the first time, I am coming to you telling you this is not dating advice. This is me showing you how to live the life of your dreams. And if the man is a part of that, if finding the perfect partner is a part of that, that will happen. That will be a byproduct. Because I'll tell you this now, living a great life, being fulfilled, being happy, Being confident is the fastest way to get the guy. I've just never had the bandwidth before to do that for people outside of a retreat. It has taken me nearly a decade of my life to get to this point. I need you to understand this is everything to me. That's why I'm so excited about this. That's why I'm so passionate about this. And by the way, if you're one of the tiny percentage of people that has had the privilege of coming to a retreat, Please leave a comment right now. Leave a comment for everybody else. Tell them the story of your retreat. You guys who have been on my retreat know I don't normally ask you for things like this, but today I'm asking. Tell people what your experience was. Tell people how it impacted you. And for those people on YouTube that I know are gonna leave a little comment saying something like, oh my god, this is just a giant ad. You're right. It's a giant ad. It's an ad for my life. work. The thing that I am most proud of. The thing that I know changes lives on the most incredible level out of anything I do. So it's fine if you want to sit on the sidelines. You know I'll be back next Sunday, as I always am. I never fail you there. But if you don't want to sit on the sidelines, if you want to step into the game and actually create the most extraordinary life, turn this one life you have into a masterpiece. Come with me on journey. I am going to be in your inbox tomorrow to tell you the details of this, but you will only get that if you are signed up in the meantime until tomorrow's announcement. Here is a taste of the magic that we experience on every single retreat.