Matthew HusseyYour Personal 24/7 Love Life Coach

If You’re Asking Yourself THIS, Then it’s Probably a NO

5 Aug 2021 · 0 min

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In this short monologue, Matthew AI argues that repeatedly questioning whether a relationship or a partner is "worth it" is a strong indicator that the answer is likely no. He contrasts this self‑doubt with the experience of being genuinely excited and happy in a relationship, noting that when someone is truly enjoying the connection they do not ask themselves if it’s worth staying. The repeated questioning, he suggests, reflects an attempt to rationalize problematic behavior while fearing the prospect of being alone, rather than genuine curiosity about the relationship’s value.

When someone is asking the question over and over and over, is this worth it? Is this guy worth it? Usually it's no. When someone is crazy into someone and having the best time and it feels great, they're not saying, should I be here? They're not asking, is this worth it? They're having a great time. When someone says, is this worth it? Usually it's them continuing to try and justify whatever behavior is happening in the relationship that they're trying to ignore because they're afraid of going out there and being on their own again. Oh, yeah. Y' all hear that? That's good.