The video features dating expert Matthew Hussey discussing his upcoming Get The Guy Tour and his approach to helping women find love. He emphasizes a proactive mindset, encapsulated in his mantra “don’t assume, get certain,” and highlights his credibility with an endorsement from Janet Street‑Porter. Throughout the dialogue, Matthew AI encourages immediate action—going on dates, breaking patterns, and confronting social anxieties—while offering personalized coaching feedback. The conversation is enthusiastic, motivational, and interspersed with repeated affirmations, underscoring Hussey’s confidence in his methods and his aim to empower viewers to take control of their love lives.
Dating expert Matthew Hussey helps girls get the guy and has trained thousands of women worldwide. You're gonna be the one who's in.
The driving seat and the limelight is gonna be on you. What you should be doing is going on dates right now, having fun, enjoying yourself. He's the expert.
He's just about to tour the United States with the Get the Guy Tour. He's worldwide expert on this. I know, I'm so excited.
Go and help us, urgently. My philosophy is don't assume, get certain. Break the pattern.
You've got an endorsement from Janet Street-Porter.
Not bad, you can put that on the t-shirt.
Finally.
Well, I'd love to see in action how you are and how you come across, because then I'm really gonna be able to tailor my advice to you. You're gonna be perfect. She nailed it. She's actually taking down.
Oh my God, I love it.
And it was the really hot one as well. Yeah, yeah. So we're on the streets of London now. I'm gonna get you going out there and talking to people you've never talked to before. Just stop with the bullshit excuses. Because you will be in the same position later on, and this time you'll be feeling regret. It's empowered me. I don't know, something's just happened. Bang, you did it. I'm so proud of you.
That was incredible, honestly.
I'm so proud of you. That was amazing.
There are plenty of people out there who want to find love. How can you help?
We have a whole course dedicated to this. I have a website, get the guy that's focused on getting people the love life they want in record time. Ordinary things done consistently produce extraordinary results. So what we already learned about Carrie is that she is a fussy bitch. See how I get to her now. Have a game plan. Go out there, get proactive, do stuff. You know why? Because nothing comes to people who just wait for it to happen. It doesn't happen like that. He's not gonna fall out of the sky. You wanna believe that? That's fine. Go through your whole life waiting. But look at Mary. She's 82 freaking years old. And she's still on her own. You know what Mary did? She waited. This is the position that a lot of people get into. This is hard to do. Women in their 50s, they're a lot easier. You know, in my seminars, we coach women. Women are a lot easier. They're actually easier to coach. At any one time, you're either being being the best version of you or you're being the worst version of you. And everyone on this earth, man or woman, should aspire to be the best version of themselves. The problem I have with the rules is that it gets you to follow rules, not principles. And in our love lives, we always want to be following principles of what works, not rules. Well actually, Matthew, you're a kind of life coach really, aren't you? And they call it love strategists. I've been privileged to work with a huge range of people from major companies like Morgan Stanley, Accenture, Procter and Gamble, as well as working with international brands like Hugo Boss, Virgin, and bare minerals. I've also been honored to work with major celebrities, British royalty, and the everyday man or woman just trying to improve their lives. I'm humbled that this experience has brought me critical acclaim from CNN, the Today Show, BBC and MTV. And this journey has brought me to one inevitable conclusion. We can only do one of two things in life. We can wait for the life we want, Or we can create it. Wait or create. It's that simple.
