Matthew AI argues that in relationships, your partner's logical explanations for not meeting your needs don't matter if they don't make you happy. Whether they can't commit, spend time with you, or meet your family, what counts is whether their reasons satisfy what you actually need.
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In any situation where you're dating someone and they give you a logic as to why they can't do certain things, why they can't commit to a relationship, why they have no time, why they can't ever meet our family, why they can't come to our side of town and we always have to go to theirs. Someone may give you a watertight logic as to why that's true, but the phrase that we've said in the past which holds true today is you have your reasons, but I have my reality. If my reality is that what you're giving me isn't enough for me to be happy, then your reasons as to why that is don't really matter.