Matthew Hussey tells a woman that confidence comes from within, not from a partner. He shares a rule: invest in a man only as much as he invests in you. Fear and past beliefs sabotage love, but small moves like complimenting a watch can start real conversations.
So if he has a conversation with you. For how long? For over two minutes. He's imagining you naked, Tiffany, do you believe that about yourself? I've been talking to you for a good two minutes now. There's something in your confidence that's off. And you know that, right? Let me tell you something that logically you know, but emotionally you don't. You're enough. And there's no one you have to meet to be enough. You can have your excuses or you can have the guy, but you can't have both. If he saw that side of you, he'd freak. Because he'd say, if this is where this woman goes when she's scared, what have I got to put up with forever? Now ask for the time. Tell him you like his watch and say, cause he's got such great taste, he needs to give you an idea for a present to buy your brother or your nephew or someone else smart. Matthew literally wrote the book on how to get the guy. So we asked him to put his skills as a dating coach to the test. Talk me through your obsession. Talk to me about your obsession. Yeah. Seating position. Just one more shot of this. Can we. I mean. Next question. What segment is this? Actually, we should probably be careful. You get recognized around here. You want to get recognized. She should probably be. Most of us are being chosen in our love lives. Instead of being the choosers. You can have all the money in the world. You can have everything. But if your love life isn't right, you're not happy. What gives you energy? You talk about the importance of energy, but what gives you energy, emotion. Emotion is, for me, the biggest driver of energy. When I go and do a live event, I'm so driven by the emotion of the room and what I'm communicating. I really believe, with every concept that I teach, I really believe this is. This is going to help people. This is going to make a difference to people's lives. Something strange about a live event. It's like things hit you on a different level. I have a rule. Don't invest in a guy based on how much you like him. Invest in a guy based on how much he invests in you. We tend to have a very narrow field of vision, especially where fear is concerned. Because if you're afraid of being alone, if you're afraid of losing someone because you won't meet someone again, you will have had beliefs that have been with you a long time, conditioning that you don't think you can get rid of things that people have said to you. Things you've been through. Trust issues, love issues. Issues of not feeling good enough, not feeling pretty enough, not feeling enough in general. I know that many people in this room will have those. And they'll think that they're destined to just live with those. You're. You're not.
