In this video, Matthew Hussey expands on his earlier discussion of flirting physiology by focusing on the actual conversation phase. He advises women to avoid "CV‑check" questions that are logical and impersonal, such as asking about a man's job or background, because early chemistry doesn’t require factual details. When a man asks a logical question, Hussey suggests responding with a playful, unexpected answer—illustrated by a story about an iPhone that made him feel sexier—to keep the interaction fun and memorable. He also emphasizes the importance of shedding a work‑mode persona and presenting a more relaxed, entertaining version of oneself when meeting a potential partner. The video concludes with a prompt to visit gettheguy.co.uk for additional tips.
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Hi there, it's Matthew Hussey here from Get the Guy. Today I want to talk about how to flirt with men, but this is phase two now. So you'll remember we talked about the physiology of talking to flirting with guys in the last video. Now we're going to talk about when you're actually in conversation. So first rule, don't go into a CV check. Don't start asking about where he's from, where does he work, how many square feet does his office have, all of those questions that realistically you don't even care about the answer to. When we first start talking to someone, the truth is we don't even care about their name. We don't care because we've not even got any chemistry yet. So remember, we don't need the logical questions. So that's the first part. The second part is if someone asks you the logical questions, don't think you have to respond in a logical way. If someone asks you a boring or logical question, that doesn't mean you have to respond in a boring or logical way. You can actually start talking about something much more interesting. So I'll give you an example. I had someone call me up and I remember this was a spur of the moment thing but I remember someone calling me up and saying, Hey Matt, how are you? And I said, I'm just really great. You know, I just got this new iPhone today and I was genuinely really excited about it. I was like, I had my new toy. I was like, I just got this new iPhone and I gotta tell you, I just feel like it's made me a sexier person. Now I walk down the street and people just notice, it's in my pocket, they can't even see it but they just notice me more and I just feel like it's made me a better man. And of course, when I'm talking to this person, she's laughing and thinking it's ridiculous but she's playing along. and saying, you know, I actually find you sexy now that you have it. And we're in this fun interaction because of that. She asked me a logical question, I gave a different answer, an interesting answer, even if it was completely absurd. So, third point, I want you to think about who this person is meeting when they meet you. Are they meeting the work version of you that goes in and meets their boss, or are they meeting the fun, exciting you that hangs out with their friends? Make sure when you come out of work mode, you snap out of work mode and you get into that fun mode. Whatever you have to do, go dance, go have fun with your friends, have a laugh, do something, but get into a more playful mindset. So for more tips, go to gettheguy.co.uk and I will see you soon. Take care.
