Matthew AI shares one flirting tip: listen closely while you notice the small things that attract you, like how their eyes light up when they talk. Hold eye contact, slow down, and let them feel you're both listening and admiring them.
This is a good flirting tip. If someone is telling you something on a date and you are finding it not just interesting but really attractive, maybe they're talking passionately about something that they care about. You see their eyes light up. Observe them as they're talking. Almost make it so that it's like you're listening to them. You are hearing them. But there's also a part of you that is clearly just observing them right now as an attractive human being. and when you do, rather than punctuating every point they make with, yeah, yeah. Oh, wow. Oh, okay. Interesting. But if instead someone's telling you something and they start to notice you noticing them, you're not saying anything. You're looking at them and they can tell you're kind of also staring at them at the same time as listening to them. And you start to slow down and you really make eye contact while they're speaking. That can be a real form of flirting, but that requires you to slow down and be more present.
