This is a YouTube video titled "The Difference Between Red and Amber Flags in Dating" containing a dialogue between two speakers discussing relationship dynamics, specifically how to interpret red and amber flags in dating and the importance of communication in improving relationships. The content was created on December 19, 2023.
You get to the point where you go, oh, my God, so many things are a red flag.
I shouldn't.
Even be allowed to date anymore. I'm a red flag. I'm a walking red flag. So, you get to a point where you go, okay, not everything can be a red flag.
Right. Some things are amber lights, and an amber light is.
An invitation.
To a conversation. Yes. Every great relationship gets better with conversation, not worse. If you have the conversation and someone.
Attacks you, if.
You have the conversation and now they go cold for two weeks, if you.
Have the conversation and.
Someone starts using your insecurities against you, Everyone can have a.
Bad reflexive reaction because the fact is none of us like to be criticized and called out.
So we're all entitled.
To a little bit of defensiveness. But it goes back to that well-being thing. If you really want my well-being, you're.
Gonna be like, okay.
You'Re hurt. Let me listen to you.
Exactly, exactly.
Does the conversation make things better? If it doesn't, red flag. If it does, okay, let's keep going.
